﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><channel><title>Blogs Blog</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org</link><pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 07:46:38 GMT</pubDate><description /><item><title>Supremely Significant</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/supremely-significant</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 16:25:10 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>Our football chaplain, Thomas Settles, gave this devotion at a recent FCA Chaplains board meeting….&nbsp;</p>
<h2>“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 2:5</h2>
Modern counseling and psychology focuses a lot of attention on obsessive behaviors—whether it’s an obsession with food, tobacco, alcohol, pornography, drugs, or even work. But perhaps one of the most overlooked addictions is our obsession with personal significance. Think about the amount of time and energy you spend in maintaining, advancing, expanding, and protecting your sense of significance. You know, making yourself look good, staying on top of the heap, protecting your ego, and living to be more successful than the next guy. The reality is…the search for significance can be a treacherous personal pursuit.
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<p> Count the costs. Significance is often gained at the expense of our character as we are willing to lie and cut ethical corners to be viewed well by others. It makes us defensive when someone seeks to speak the truth in love. This ungodly pursuit embitters our hearts against God over disappointing and unchangeable personal issues like our size, shape, or color. Pursuing our own significance makes us vulnerable to a host of verbal sins, such as gossip, slander, boasting, lying, and immoral chatter. It’s why we are quick to violate basic principles of stewardship by burdening ourselves with debt in order to accumulate things that supposedly enhance our significance is long and serious.</p>
<p>  Being driven to protect and advance our sense of significance renders us unable to serve others unless there is an advantage to be gained; unable to sacrifice for a cause that is not our own and unwilling to suffer for that cause if necessary; unable to surrender to any agenda that impedes the progress of our personal persona. In short, it cripples our ability to love God more than ourselves and to live to bring glory to God since, when we are compelled to glorify ourselves, we are unable to glorify Him.</p>
<p>  What can we do about this? At the start of his letter to the Colossians, Paul notes that Jesus is the only true significant Person: “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation…All things were created by Him and for Him. He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together. He is the beginning and the firstborn from among the dead, so that in everything He might have the supremacy.” Yet, as Paul wrote to the Philippians, Jesus did not live to hold on to these things but rather poured Himself out for our benefit by humbling Himself in obedience to His Father.</p>
<p>  Don’t miss the point! Jesus---who had every right to celebrate and advance His own significance---chose to serve, surrender, suffer, and sacrifice in order to bring glory to His Father and to rescue us from the grip of hell. As a child of God you already are significant! God is your Father. Significance is no longer a search but a secured reality. And once you are significant in Him, you are free to refocus your obsession to living to glorify His significance and not your own. So, let the attitude of Christ be in you. It’s a significant pursuit worthy of your obsession! </p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/supremely-significant</guid></item><item><title>One of the Greatest Fears of An Athlete: Injury</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/one-of-the-greatest-fears-of-an-athlete-injury</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 16:22:55 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[For the past few days, I’ve been reading a remarkable book by theologian, John Stott called&nbsp;<em><strong>The Radical Disciple</strong></em>. In it, he gives eight characteristics of Christian discipleship that are often neglected in the lives of followers of Christ. One of those characteristics is a chapter titled “Dependence”. Here Stott describes his experience of fracturing his hip and having to totally rely on others to take care of him during the painful process of hip replacement surgery and rehab. He then explains how experiences like this “can be used by God to bring about greater maturity in us.”&nbsp;<br />
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Here are some things he learned:<br />
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“Human vulnerability can be a painful but liberating experience.”<br />
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“A refusal to be dependent on others is not a mark of maturity but immaturity.”<br />
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These discoveries of Stott’s were prompted by his fear of getting old and searching for answers in the Holy Scriptures. He references John 21:18, when Jesus said to Peter:&nbsp;<em>“When you were younger you dressed yourself and went where you wanted; but when you are old you will stretch out your hands, and someone else will dress you and lead you where you do not want to go.”&nbsp;</em><br />
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Injury is one of the greatest fears of an athlete for many reasons, but, after all the hospital visits I’ve made over the past seven years in service to the Bulldogs, one observation remains true: He or she is not looking forward to the crutches &amp; braces, scheduling rehab sessions around a therapist’s availability, and relying on roommates to do everything but wipe his/her hind end after he/she goes to bathroom. Injury, depending upon its severity, can certainly be a humbling experience. I remember while playing volleyball in college I suffered two severe ankle sprains over a span of four months. I literally lived on crutches for almost five weeks. One rainy day while I was crutching to class, I slipped on a wet marbled floor. Down I went into a big embarrassing crash! I remember in my first attempt to get back up I fell yet again. Finally, a passer-by who pitied my helpless state stopped and helped me regain my balance.<br />
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Our culture today often teaches us to be independent. It teaches us that “if you wanna succeed, ya gotta go get it yourself,” even if it means a person who poses as a potential threat has gotta get shoved under the bus “for the sake of the goal.” Thankfully, we have team sports to teach us that without teamwork, we cannot achieve goals. At least in the sports culture we still have some tangible grasp of this character quality Stott describes as Christ-like.&nbsp;<br />
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<h3>Dependence is Christ-like because…</h3>
“Christ himself takes on the dignity of dependence. He is born a baby, totally dependent on the care of his mother. He needs to be fed, he needs his bottom to be wiped, he needs to be propped up when he rolls over. And yet he never loses his divine dignity. And at the end, on the cross, he again becomes totally dependent, limbs pierced and stretched, unable to move. So in the person of Christ we learn that dependence does not, cannot, deprive a person of their dignity, of their supreme worth. And if dependence was appropriate for the God of the universe, it is certainly appropriate for us.” –John Stott<br />
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Galatians 6:2,&nbsp;<em>“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”<br />
</em>If you’re suffering an injury right now, take heart! It may just be that God wants to not only teach you something about yourself, but more importantly, something about the people who love you and WHO CHRIST IS !]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/one-of-the-greatest-fears-of-an-athlete-injury</guid></item><item><title>“California Dreamin’ : No Spirit, No Power”</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/california-dreamin-no-spirit-no-power</link><pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 16:30:13 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<blockquote>"Then the apostles and the elders assembled to consider this matter. After there had been much debate, Peter stood up and said to them: “Brothers, you are aware that in the early days God made a choice among you, that by my mouth the Gentiles would hear the gospel message and believe. And God, who knows the heart, testified to them by giving the Holy Spirit, just as He also did to us. He made no distinction between us and them, cleansing their hearts by faith. Why then, are you now testing God by putting on the disciples’ necks a yoke that neither our forefathers nor we have been able to bear? On the contrary, we believe we are saved through the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, in the same way they are.” Then the whole assembly fell silent and listened to Barnabas and Paul describing all the signs and wonders God had done through them among the Gentiles." <br />
Acts 15:6-12 (NIV)</blockquote>
I’m heading to Irvine, California for U.S. Swim Nationals to serve as a female chaplain next week. In the past few months, I’ve been studying God’s Word to prepare me for the trip. All I’ve been able to think about lately is the role God’s Spirit plays in how we as Christians communicate to non believers.&nbsp;<br />
To be quite honest, I do not possess the gift of public speaking. I can speak on what I’m passionate about, but I lack the skill of communicating to large numbers of people and “drawing them in.” In fact, if I were really honest with myself and others, any real effective ministry activities I’ve ever participated in or conducted have strictly been out of God’s will and power. Sometimes I think that God just blinks, or He’ll have a thought about something---something that is impossible for us to do as humans--- then suddenly, it happens!&nbsp;<br />
I like this passage in Acts because it reminds me that if I don’t have God’s Spirit to give me favor in the eyes of “Gentiles” (a.k.a. for this day &amp; age…unbelievers), then I’m toast. Everything that comes out of my mouth is just fluff without God’s truth. The Gospel is a powerful story, and when it is communicated with sincere passion and faithful service, that’s when God blinks. Look out! There’s no telling what could happen in the hearts of the people hearing about Jesus Christ!]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/california-dreamin-no-spirit-no-power</guid></item><item><title>Spiritual Mediocrity</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/spiritual-mediocrity</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 15:25:34 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[This past Sunday, my pastor at my church spoke about spiritual faith. He read the passage out of Matthew 19 about the rich young ruler and then defined “spiritual mediocrity”. What is spiritual mediocrity? When he gave the definition, I could feel my heart beating up into my throat. It’s defined as: “seeking a life of ease, predictability and comfort.”<br />
<strong><em></em></strong><blockquote><strong><em>Matthew 19:16-22: Just then someone came up and asked Him, “Teacher, what good must I do to have eternal life?”<br />
“Why do you ask Me about what is good?” [Jesus] said to him. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.”<br />
“Which ones?” he asked Him. Jesus answered,<br />
“Do not murder; do not commit adultery; do not steal; do not bear false witness; honor your father and your mother; and love your neighbor as yourself.”<br />
“I have kept all these,” the young man told Him. “What do I still lack?”<br />
“If you want to be perfect,” Jesus said to him, “go, sell your belongings and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow Me.”<br />
When the young man heard that command, he went away grieving, because he had many possessions.</em></strong></blockquote>
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A very wise, godly lady gave me some advice about a year ago. It was Grace’s mom, Lynn. She said, “Don’t ever acquire anything that you wouldn’t be willing to give away to someone in need.” God’s always using the people who know Him to give us messages to remind us that holding onto things, like stuff we buy, the things that we think are going to give us satisfaction and comfort, are only going to leave us dissatisfied. It’s a futile search to find things to fulfill us when all we need is to know our Creator. HE is the treasure we need to seek and find.</p>
<p>Ya know, this guy in the story from Matthew is not a “bad guy” and I’m not so sure that Jesus really wanted him to sell everything he had. Perhaps Jesus was just trying to see where this guy’s heart was, what he was really wanting in life. His response reveals that he preferred a life of ‘ease, predictability and comfort.’</p>
<p>A prayer:&nbsp;<em>“Lord, thank you for all that you have provided for me. I know that “every perfect gift is from above” (James 1:17). The greatest of all gifts you given me is Yourself, a real and satisfying relationship with You! Everything else, my family, other relationships, my job, my house, my possessions are just icing on the cake. Enable me, by Your Spirit, to not hold onto the stuff the world has to offer and miss You. I pray these things in the name of the Father, the Son &amp; the Holy Spirit, Amen.”</em>
</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/spiritual-mediocrity</guid></item><item><title>In Memory of Grandma Ruth, May 25, 2010</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/in-memory-of-grandma-ruth-may-25-2010</link><pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 14:37:26 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><strong></strong></p>
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<h3>Safely Home</h3>
</strong><img alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_m510SySdGjA/S_xO7HLtB8I/AAAAAAAAACw/z9frVNmkwZE/s320/Family+Pic.jpg" width="320" height="174" style="float: right;" />I am now at home in heaven; all’s so happy, all so bright!
<p>There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light.</p>
<p>  All the pain and grief are over, every restless tossing past; I am now at peace forever,</p>
<p>  Safely home in heaven at last.</p>
<p>  Did you wonder I so calmly trod the Valley of the Shade? Oh, but Jesus’ love illumined every dark and fearful glade.</p>
<p>  And He came Himself to meet me in that way so hard to tread; and with Jesus’ arm to lean on, could I have one doubt or dread?<br />
Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth’s shadows, pray to trust our Father’s will.<br />
There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idle stand; do your work while life remaineth---you shall rest in Jesus’ land.<br />
When the work is all completed, He will gently call you home; Oh, the rapture of the meeting! Oh, the joy to see you come!</p>
<p>“Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” Psalm 116:15</p>
<p>"Because I [Jesus] live, ye shall live also.” John 14:19</p>
<p>“And so shall we ever be with the Lord.” 1 Thessalonians 4:17
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<h3>Chapel with UGA Women’s Tennis Team at the 2010 NCAA Regionals</h3>
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<p>In the eleventh chapter of the Gospel of Matthew, verses 25-30, Jesus said,&nbsp;“I praise you Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because You have hidden these things from the wise and learned and revealed them to infants. Yes, Father, because this was Your good pleasure. All things have been entrusted to Me by My Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son desires to reveal Him.Come to Me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. All of you, take up My yoke and learn from Me, because I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for yourselves. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”</p>
<p>This past weekend, me, along with our intern, Emily Deans, had the opportunity to spend time with the defending ’09 SEC Champion Georgia Women’s Tennis Team. Our Dawgs swept Harvard on Friday to advance to the 2nd round of Saturday’s NCAA Regionals against the Clemson Tigers. On Friday night, me and Emily met the team at their hotel and had some time in the Word together. The verses above were the central passages of our talk that evening.</p>
<p>The longer I minister to these female athletes, the more I realize how much of a sacrifice they’ve made to be at this level of competitive athletics. Many of the sacrifices have been in the areas of their personal lives. It’s very hard to maintain close relationships with anyone-- other than your parents—when you have to train 5-6 hours a day, plus maintain your academic schooling. When they’re not training, they’re studying; and when they’re not studying they’re acquiring medical services for their injuries. When they’re not getting treatment, they’re eating and sleeping! There may be some time for internet messaging and texting a few family members, but, most of their time is spent with the people associated with their sport.</p>
<p>Imagine having this kind of life for 18-20 years straight! That’s all an average elite athlete experiences. No wonder they’re looking for various ways—some good, some not-so-good---to relieve stress and anxieties associated with their lifestyles! We know that many times they find temporary relief from alcohol, relationships and casual sex.</p>
<p>Well, where can an athlete find true real relief and true REST? Jesus has the answer. Himself. From the passage above, we find out several important facts about God and His Son, Jesus Christ:</p>
<p>• It gives God pleasure to reveal things to us about Himself.</p>
<p>• God reveals Himself through His one and only Son, Jesus Christ. Jesus&nbsp;“reveals the Father to whom He desires”(v.27).</p>
<p>• God reveals Himself and His ways to those who come to Him in a child-like trust. The proud and boastful will not see God (v. 25).</p>
<p>• It is impossible to know God apart from knowing His Son! “Know” in Greek is “ginosko,” which means “to seek to know or investigate; an understanding that leads to a relationship that’s of value and importance.”</p>
<p>As we spent time with the Lady Dawgs, I shared a story from Andre Agassi’s recent book called&nbsp;Open. We discussed how it’s easy to think that God relates to us as other people do in our human relationships. On this point, we read an excerpt from&nbsp;Open&nbsp;in which Agassi relays a story about his father from when he was 10 years old:&nbsp;“My father likes to shoot the hawks with his rifle. Our house is blanketed with his victims, dead birds that cover the roof as thickly as tennis balls cover the court. My father says he doesn’t like hawks because they swoop down on mice and other defenseless desert creatures. He can’t stand the thought of something strong preying on something weak. (This holds true when he goes fishing: whatever he catches, he kisses its scaly head and throws it back.) Of course he has no qualms about preying on me, no trouble watching me gasp for air on his hook. He doesn’t see the contradiction. He doesn’t care about contradictions. He doesn’t realize that I’m the most defenseless creature in this godforsaken desert. If he did realize, I wonder, would he treat me differently?”&nbsp;Agassi goes on to explain how his relationship with his father was dependent upon how well he did in tennis. If he played well and won, his father was happy. If he lost, his father was a tyrant and verbally abusive.</p>
<p>For some athletes, they’ve been taught all their life that if they are successful, they are loved. If they win, they are accepted and valued.</p>
<p>God, on the other hand, knows our helpless spiritual condition. He knows that we are sinful and cannot do anything to change that. It’s in our nature and we’re born to make mistakes (Romans 5:6). We may be able to work our way to a sports championship or a successful career, but, we cannot work our way to God’s holy and perfect nature. We will always fall short (Romans 3:23).</p>
<p>What is the answer?&nbsp;Come&nbsp;to Jesus Christ. Rest in Him. Confess that you can’t do this life on your own. Stop trying to find your self-worth in performance. True rest only comes from God through His Son. If we know the Son, we will know the peace of the Father!</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/true-rest</guid></item><item><title>Hope in the Midst of Great Adversity</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/hope-in-the-midst-of-great-adversity</link><pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 16:51:45 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>One early Saturday morning on April 26, 2003, a  twenty seven year old mountaineer and avid outdoorsman named Aron Ralston sets  out for a 108 mile mountain bike ride/hike into the Canyonlands National Park  of Southeast Utah. This short 5 day trip included a rock-climb into Horseshoe  Canyon.</p>
<p>  Ralston knew this solo trip would require weeks of  planning in advance. He had every detail covered, including the contents of his  back pack: one chocolate bar, a chocolate muffin, two small bean burritos, one  plastic grocery bag, a mesh pouch containing a CD player, CDs, extra AA  batteries, a mini digital video camera, a multi-use/knife tool, a headlamp, lip  balm, two water bottles, one Camelbak/water pack, climbing ropes &amp;  harnesses. The only detail he did not attend to, however, was informing his friends  and family where he was going and how long he’d be away.</p>
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Once his truck is loaded with his backpack and  bike, Ralston sets out on his journey that ill-fated April morning. He parks  his truck in a nearby tourist lot, gets on his bike and begins an 8 mile ride  into the Park. By 1:15 pm that afternoon, he arrives in Horseshoe Canyon,  dismounts his bike and U-locks it to a nearby juniper tree. He then begins  hiking to his next attraction, Blue John Canyon. When he arrives at the bottom  of the canyon, he immediately pulls out his climbing gear and starts up the  wall. By 2:41 pm he is a quarter of the way into his climb and begins  maneuvering over a series of chock stones, which are large refrigerator-size  rocks nestled in the narrow deep slot canyon.</p>
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What happens next marks the beginning of what  Ralston describes as an experience “nothing short of hell.” Three seconds play  out a tenth of their normal speed as a rock---or more like a boulder--- loosens  from above and falls. It crushes Ralston’s right hand, pinning it and his right  arm against the wall. For six days and five nights, Ralston is trapped in the  canyon, attempting to preserve his food and water rations, till finally he  resorts to collecting his own urine in his Nalgene bottle and drinking it to  keep from dehydration. The daylight gives Ralston hope, but as night falls, the  canyon grows “bitterly dark and is an unbearably cold place of lonely solitude;  an arctic prison without a warden and but one abandoned inmate, forsaken even  by the supposed ringleader of the underworld.” Ralston then says, “There is no  other spiritual energy, good or evil, on which to project love or hatred. There  is only one emotion in hell: unmitigated despair wrapped in abject loneliness.”  (<em>Between A Rock And A Hard Place, 2004 Atria  Books, pg. 238</em>)</p>
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By the evening of Day Five of this “hell  experience,” Ralston finally succumbs to what seems an inevitable fate: death.  “I understand that this is the end, that I won’t survive the night, and the  thought does not stir me, because I have stopped fighting for control. Letting  go of my desire to dictate the outcome of my entrapment releases a disconnected  feeling of lightheartedness that vaguely approximates bliss. I’ve recognized a  great truth: Some other marvelous force is in control, and has been all along.  Give it whatever name I want, all I know for sure is that I don’t have to sweat  it out anymore, because I’m not in charge.” (pg. 247)</p>
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As you read about Aron Ralston’s story, perhaps  you are in the middle of a time of great adversity. Are you caught “between a  rock and a hard place?” Perhaps you’ve experienced some kind of life  circumstance that’s left you discouraged and feeling like you’re in a “bitterly  dark and cold place of lonely solitude.” Maybe your heartache and sadness has  resulted from a stressful relationship, a break-up or even divorce. Or maybe  your challenges have stemmed from a terminal illness or health condition;  adjusting to retirement or the ending of an athletic or professional career; an  uncertainty about the future; the death of a loved one or child; or a sickness  that has brought you to a point of surrender. Maybe an insecurity has been  exposed in front of very critical eyes. Since economical crisis hit our country  a year ago, loss of employment has resulted for many people. Maybe that’s your  situation. And, of course, there are many who suffer with depression.</p>
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When you lay your head down on the pillow at  night, do you ever wonder if there is anything or anyone worth living for?  Sometimes when we get alone with our thoughts we think there is no way out of  the circumstances and we’re totally alone. We think it’d be much easier to die  than to live with the unbearable pain. It would seem so much simpler just to  give up.</p>
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But then, a new day dawns and after a long night  of suffering and despair, you begin to sense this “Marvelous Force” as the  sunlight peers through the windows of your bedroom.&nbsp;<em><strong>“For His anger lasts only a  moment but His favor lasts a lifetime; weeping may remain for a night, but joy  comes in the morning. When I felt secure, I said, ‘I will never be shaken.’ O  LORD, when you favored me, you made my mountain stand firm; but when you hid  your face, I was dismayed. To You, O LORD, I called; to the Lord I cried for  mercy: ‘What gain is there in my destruction, in my going down into the pit?  Will the dust praise you? Will it proclaim your faithfulness? Hear O LORD, and  be merciful to me; O LORD, be my help.’” (Psalm 30:5-10)</strong></em><strong><em></em></strong></p>
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</em></strong>Each new day brings with it hope because  you realize that you’re not in control and more importantly, that you, in fact,  are not alone. The Marvelous Force is God’s Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is  God’s presence around you in times of adversity. Listen to how Jesus Christ  describes-- His third--- Person of the Trinity:</p>
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<em><strong>“But I tell you the truth: It is for your good  that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Counselor will not come to you; but  if I go, I will send Him to you. When He comes, He will convict the world of  guilt in regard to sin, because men do not believe in Me; in regard to righteousness,  because I am going to the Father, where you can see me no longer…But when He,  the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all truth. He will not speak  on His own; He will speak only what He hears, and He will tell you what is yet  to come. He will bring glory to Me by taking from what is Mine and making it  known to you.” (John 16:7-10, 12-14)</strong></em><strong><em></em></strong></p>
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</em></strong>If you invite God’s presence into your  life, He will reveal to you areas of your life where you fall short. Upon your  confession, He will then give you His grace, mercy and His righteousness  (Romans 10:9-10). Because of His sacrifice on the Cross, you can be made new (2  Cor. 5:17); “new” in the way you think and live. As you experience God’s  presence and get to know Him by reading the Bible, you will begin to know His  heart, His character, and His attributes. You will know how to make decisions  concerning your life situations because a part of Him lives in you which  directs your thoughts and desires.</p>
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Back to the Aron Ralston story….it has quite an  incredible ending! On Day Six, in a final desperation to save his life, Aron  Ralston does the unthinkable. He purposefully breaks his arm and then takes a  knife tool and saws through the muscles, veins and ligament tissues, freeing  the remainder of his right arm from between the boulder and the wall! When he  is found by rescuers, severely dehydrated and bleeding (it could have been much  worse if he hadn’t used a tube like piece from his Camelbak as a tourniquet),  his story quickly makes national news.</p>
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Ralston underwent 3 major surgeries to ward off  potential bone infections and to repair the damaged arteries and veins of his  right arm. Ralston then received a prosthetic device, which he now uses as he  continues to go on mountain bike and rock-climbing adventures. Ralston has  written a book about his experience (<em>Between A Rock &amp; A Hard  Place, Atria Books, 2004</em>) and does  inspirational speeches around the country. He has appeared on the David  Letterman Show and in other television and magazine interviews as well.</p>
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In the final chapter of Aron Ralston’s book, he  explains: “For all that has happened and the opportunities still developing in  my life, I feel blessed. I was part of a miracle that has touched a great  number of people in the world and I wouldn’t trade that for anything, not even  to have my hand back. My accident in and rescue from Blue John Canyon were the  most beautifully spiritual experiences of my life. When we find inspiration, we  need to take action for ourselves and our communities. Even if it means making  a hard choice, or cutting out something and leaving it in your past. Saying  farewell is also a bold and powerful beginning.” (<em>pg. 342</em>)</p>
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My prayer for Aron Ralston is that he would seek  wisdom and inspiration from God. I pray that he will experience the grace and  love of Jesus Christ and recognize how glorious Christ is! It is through Jesus  Christ that we have access to God and a chance to experience true joy!</p>
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His Word tells us that He allows adversity to  point us to His Son!</p>
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<em><strong>“…we know that affliction produces endurance,  endurance produces proven character, and proven character produces hope. This  hope does not disappoint, because God’s love has been poured out in our hearts  through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” (Romans 5:4-5)</strong></em></p>
<em><strong></strong></em>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/hope-in-the-midst-of-great-adversity</guid></item><item><title>Unless You're In, You're Out!</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/unless-youre-in-youre-out</link><pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 16:47:02 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>The Apostle Paul. What an amazing man of God. Everytime I read his letters in the Bible and see how God worked in his life, I'm simply in awe. Why? Because of stuff like this:&nbsp;"For although I am free from all people, I have made myself a slave to all, in order to win more people....to the weak I became weak, in order to win the weak. I have become all things to all people, so that I may by all means save some. Now I do all this because of the Gospel&nbsp;(of Jesus Christ),&nbsp;that I may become a partner in its benefits." (Paul, to the church in Corinth, 1 Corinthians 9:19, 22-23, HCSB)<br />
A few years ago, our ministry began a small group team Bible study with members of the Georgia Swim Team. This group included myself, four young women from the team and a graduate student/former diver from UT. One evening, as we sat around the table, we began talking about the difference between swimmers and the rest of the athletic population that represented Georgia sports. I then asked what were the distinctive differences between them and the rest of us. One of the girls from the team then said, "Well, Jill, unless you're in, you're out!" In other words, "Unless you're down there, in the water 5 hours a day training and knowing what we go through, day in and day out, you can't possibly begin to understand us." My first reaction was stunned silence. I remained somewhat calm, but inside, my heart was pounding up into my throat and all I could do was think, "God, why did you get me involved with this?!"<br />
Now, I was a college athlete. I played volleyball and then went on to coach it for 11 years at the high school and club levels. But, needless to say, I had absolutely NO background with swimming. Well, with the exception of swimming for leisure (which really counts for nothing in the swim world), I'd never cared much for the sport. In fact, when I was 8 years old, I almost drowned in a neighbor's pool and would not be alive today if it weren't for our church pastors' wife, Georgia Finney, jumping in--fully-clothed--and rescuing me from a near-death experience.<br />
After the Georgia swimmer's comment that night, I rode home in my car--in pure silence--and decided that I didn't care anything about swimming. But, I also decided that I was going to care about the swimmers. And over a short period of time, God put a love in my heart for those women! I wanted them to know what I knew about this amazing God I serve. I desired for them to grow closer in their relationship with Him. I wanted to teach them His Word (the Bible). I considered it a privilege to get to see them once a week and study His love Letter to us.<br />
I came to one single reality: I had to care about what they cared about---Swimming---in order to give them an opportunity to care what mattered most to me.<br />
Paul describes this desire as "becoming all things to all people." Now Paul didn't have some "messianic complex," where he&nbsp;himselfwanted to save people. He wanted to earn-the-right-to-be heard in the peoples' lives around him&nbsp;for the sake of the Gospel!&nbsp;He wanted to share what was most important to him. But, in order to do that, he had to first serve them! Isn't that powerful. It's like saying to someone, "Ya know, I just want to serve you, no strings attached. I don't expect anything in return. In fact, as long as you keep accepting, I'll keep giving."<br />
Well, I'm not sure (on this side of Eternity at least) how well I communicated this to the swimmers at Georgia over the years, but, what I do know is that I love them. I love them because God loves me. Only God can give us a true, geniune love for people (1 John 4:7-12, 19)<br />
And ya know what? I actually enjoy watching swim meets now! I even have read some books about swimming: anything from teaching swimming/how-to books, to Natalie Coughlin's biography, etc. In the past couple of years, I've gotten to live in a time where major records have been broken in the sport through Michael Phelps and other Olympians. It's actually been a cool experience.<br />
When you take the time to care about what others care about; serve them for the sake of perhaps one day sharing the Gospel with them; and go and learn about "where they live," you begin to experience what Christ did. Christ, who was fully God and fully human at the same time, came down from a throne in Heaven and humbled Himself. He became human. He experienced every temptation and hurt we'll ever face. Why? Because "God so loved us..." (John 3:16)&nbsp;"Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens---Jesus the Son of God--let us hold fast to the confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tested in every way as we are, yet without sin. Therefore, let us approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us at the proper time."(Hebrews 4:14-16, HCSB)</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/unless-youre-in-youre-out</guid></item><item><title>Who Doesn’t Like to Read a Great Story?!</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/who-doesnt-like-to-read-a-great-story</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 13:26:50 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>I love to read. I like to pick up a book, grab a cup of coffee and sit for hours and read. Give me an exciting fictional story about people falling in love, getting through tragic circumstances, and exploring mysterious worlds and I’m content. Who doesn’t like to read a great story?!</p>
<p>Here’s how writer Beth Felker Jones describes the power of stories: “I love the way a story can carry us into another world, a world of imagination and mystery. When a story captures our heart, we dive into it! We sink deep into the waters of the world the author has created for us and learn its geography. We fear what the characters fear and love what the characters love. Most of all, I love what happens when we come out of the story world. We come up from under the water of imagination and take a deep breath of air of our own world. But it isn’t the same world it was before we dove into the story. The story world changes our world. It helps us imagine possibilities we couldn’t possibly have seen before. It suggests new dreams to guide us, new fears to horrify us, and new hopes to inspire us. The stories we love have power. They change our lives.” (Intro from Touched by a Vampire: Discovering the Hidden Messages of the Twilight Saga)</p>
<p>I once heard a man say, “There’s a good book in all of us.” I believe that’s true. We all have a story. And as long as we’re breathing, our story is on-going. It had a definite beginning (when we drew our first breath), it has a process (the present), and it involves an uncertain future. Perhaps one question we’ll ask ourselves at some point is “What is God’s role in my story?” Or more importantly, “Who is writing my story?”</p>
<p>Psalm 139:16 “Your eyes saw me when I was formless; all my days were written in Your book and planned before a single one of them began.”</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/who-doesnt-like-to-read-a-great-story</guid></item><item><title>The Greatest Proof of Jesus' Resurrection is What happens in a Believer's Heart</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/the-greatest-proof-of-jesus-resurrection-is-what-happens-in-a-believers-heart</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2010 16:05:07 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>Psalm 27:4 "One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in His temple."</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/the-greatest-proof-of-jesus-resurrection-is-what-happens-in-a-believers-heart</guid></item><item><title>Can Naturalistic Theories Account for the Resurrection?</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/can-naturalistic-theories-account-for-the-resurrection</link><pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 20:36:18 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Ray R. Habermass</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p></p>
<p>One of our first thoughts when we hear someone claim to have witnessed a miracle is that there must be some sort of natural explanation. After all, even if they do occur, miracles are not the norm in nature.<br />
In the Gospels we are told there was a similar response relating to Christ’s resurrection When the Jewish priests were told the report of the empty tomb, they spread the tale that Jesus’ disciples had stolen His body (Mt.28:12-15).<br />
Even believers reacted this way. When Mary Magdalene initially saw Jesus, she made a natural assumption, supposing He was the gardener (Jn. 20:10-15). When the disciples heard the report of the women who had gone to Jesus’ tomb, they thought the women were spreading rumors or false tales (Lk 24:11). Later, when they saw the risen Jesus, these same followers thought they were seeing a ghost or hallucination (Lk 24:36-43).<br />
Throughout history many have had similar responses regarding Jesus’ resurrection, attempting to come up with naturalistic theories to explain away the resurrection. These attempts were far more common in the nineteenth century than they are today. Even if we were to ignore the majority of the information in the Gospels, appealing only to those historical facts that are acknowledged by virtually every scholar who studies this subject, both conservative and liberal, we still have many major responses to each of the naturalistic theories. Not surprisingly, comparatively few scholars today think any of these alternative hypotheses really works.<br />
For example, few critics have proposed that Jesus never died on the cross but instead “swooned”---fainted and only appeared dead. Dozens of medical studies have shown how death by crucifixion really kills and how this would be recognized by those present. Most of these reports argue that the chief cause of death in crucifixion was asphyxiation (death from being unable to breathe). It is even easy to ascertain when the victim was dead---he remained hanging in the down position without pushing up to breathe. Additionally, a death blow frequently ensured the victim’s demise. The prevailing medical explanation of Jesus’ chest wound is that the presence of blood and water indicated He was stabbed through the heart, thereby ensuring His death.<br />
But many scholars think another serious problem dooms the swoon theory. If Jesus had not died on the cross, He would have been in exceptionally bad shape when His followers saw Him. Limping profusely, bleeding from His many wounds and probably even leaving a bloody trail, stoop-shouldered and pale, He hardly would have been able to convince His disciples that He was their risen Lord---and in a transformed body at that! Many historical reasons and the near unanimity of scholarly opinion indicate that Jesus’ disciples at least truly believed they had seen Him resurrected. On such grounds the swoon thesis is actually self-refuting. It presents a Jesus who would have contradicted the disciples’ belief in His resurrection simply by appearing in the horrible physical shape that is demanded by this view!<br />
But could the disciples have stolen His dead body? This approach has been almost ignored for more than 200 years because it would not explain the disciples’ sincere belief that they had seen the risen Jesus—a belief for which they were clearly willing to die. Their transformations need an adequate explanation. Neither would the theft hypothesis explain the conversions from skepticism by James, the brother of Jesus, or Paul, occasioned by their own beliefs that they had also seen the risen Jesus. These facts are noted even by the critical scholars.<br />
Might someone else have stolen Jesus’ body? This approach addresses nothing but the empty tomb. It provides no explanation for Jesus’ appearances, which are the best evidence for the resurrection. Further, it fails to account for the conversions of James and Paul. Besides, many candidates for the body stealers would have had no motivation for taking the body. This alternative accounts for far too little of the known data. It is no wonder that critics virtually never opt for it.<br />
There are myriads of problems with hallucination theories, too. We will mention just a few. Hallucinations are private experiences, whereas our earliest accounts report that Jesus appeared to groups as well as to individuals. Further, the dissimilar personalities witnessing the appearances clearly militate against everyone’s inventing a mental image, often at the same time. So do the reactions of those disciples who responded to the reports of the resurrection by doubting. The conversions of James and Paul are extremely problematic for this view, since unbelieving skeptics would hardly desire to hallucinate about the risen Jesus. And if hallucinations are the best explanation, then the tomb should not have been empty!<br />
Could the resurrection accounts have developed later as mere stories that grew over time? A few of the potential responses should be adequate. Here again, the fact that the disciples truly believed they had seen the risen Jesus is highly problematic for this view, since it indicates that original accounts were derived from the eyewitnesses themselves, not from some later stories. Further, the fact that these appearances were reported extremely early, within just a few years of the crucifixion, attests that at least the core message was intact from the outset. Moreover, the empty tomb would be a constant physical reminder that this was not just some ungrounded tale. Both James and Paul again provide even more insurmountable problems for this view, for these skeptics were convinced that they has also seen the risen Jesus; tales developing years later fail to account for their conversions.<br />
For reasons such as these, most critical scholars today reject the naturalistic theories as adequate accounts of Jesus’ resurrection. They simply do not explain the known historical data. In fact, many liberal scholars even critique the alternatives that are periodically suggested!<br />
Here we have a strong witness to the historical nature of Jesus’ resurrection. Naturalistic theories have failed. Further, many historical evidences favor the resurrection. Taking all this together, we have strong reasons to believe that this event actually occurred in history. After all, the more thoroughly the alternative theories fail, the more we are left with the evidences themselves, and they are powerful indicators that Jesus rose from the dead.</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/can-naturalistic-theories-account-for-the-resurrection</guid></item><item><title>Vision is Caught, Not Taught</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/vision-is-caught-not-taught</link><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 20:42:34 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<div>Listen to this advice the Apostle Paul gives in Titus 2:2-5<br />
<em>“Older men are to be self-controlled, worthy of respect, sensible, and sound in faith, love and endurance.&nbsp;<strong>In the same way, older women are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not addicted to much wine. They are to teach what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands and children….so that God’s message will be not be slandered.”</strong></em></div>
<div><img alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_m510SySdGjA/S6uP6OMMGlI/AAAAAAAAAAk/Z3bAAyOkEC0/s320/Women%27s+Night+-+Spring08.JPG" width="320" height="241" style="float: left;" />Over the past few years, I’ve been able to observe something truly extraordinary; something that only God could plan and carry out. I’d like to share about some local women in the community of Athens who have sacrificed their time and spiritual investments in the lives of some of our women athletes at Georgia through the ministry of FCA.<br />
One Wednesday morning in the Spring of 2005, I walked into Carolyn Rogers’ classroom at Briarwood Baptist Church. A man from a neighboring church knew I was looking for a Bible study in which to go deeper in my understanding of God’s Word, and he told me about Carolyn and the Precept courses she conducted. (Precept is an inductive Bible study ministry led by Kay Arthur, which is headquartered out of Chattanooga, TN…to find out more, go to:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.precept.org/" target="_blank">http://www.precept.org/</a>) The day I walked into Carolyn's classroom was the beginning of something special.<br />
Briarwood is a somewhat small, but growing, congregation off Hwy 53 in Watkinsville, GA. It is filled with families—young and old. The men occasionally get together and do community outreaches with other local churches, “chicken mulls,” and men’s breakfast outings/fellowships. The women of Briarwood are just as active, if not more, through weekly Bible studies, mission projects and annual retreats to Gatlinburg, TN. These women are simply amazing in their service to one-another and the new women who come to their activities! If you visit a Bible study, you can be sure that you will get your neck hugged half a dozen times and eat enough—homemade--- food to fulfill your caloric allotment for the day.<br />
Carolyn became a member of the FCA Chaplain’s Board of Directors in 2007, and since then, her and I have developed an event called “Women’s Night.” Women’s Night happens once a month, on Thursday’s, and is for all the women athletes and students involved in the sports ministry on campus called Team United. Team United is a coalition of three athletic ministries: FCA, Athletes in Action and Georgia Athletes Outreach. We have anywhere from 20-40 female students and athletes (from various sport teams) who come to a local woman’s house and between 10-15 women from Briarwood cook. We even have Redcoats, Majorettes, and the Georgia Cheerleaders who participate. It’s like Thanksgiving every time we get together because everything is homemade and in abundance! As Grace Taylor (current Gym Dog who’s been participating for the past 2 1/2 years, says) “It’s a time where we get physically and spiritually fed.” The meal is followed by a teaching time in which Carolyn takes the young women through a passage in the Bible and reflects on how it relates to their lives.<br />
<img alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_m510SySdGjA/S6uPhKq74xI/AAAAAAAAAAc/22y57t3Os28/s320/DSC_0060.JPG" width="320" height="214" style="float: right;" />Just recently, the women of Briarwood held a shower for one of the Gym Dogs who is getting married in July. During that time, we ate homemade sushi, Hummingbird cake and ice cream sundaes. Each of the older women (ages ranging from 25-60, and years of marriage ranging from 1 month to 38 years) gave marriage advice to the bride-to-be. Some of the advice shared:</div>
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<div>“Learn to cook!”</div>
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“Get a king-size bed!”<br />
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<div>“Learn how to say ‘I forgive you.’ “<br />
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<div>“The man you marry should be your best friend.”<br />
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<div>“Know when to hold your tongue when you want to say something negative.”<br />
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<div>“Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.” Prov. 31:30</div>
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<div>Through the relationships being built between these women and UGA girls, we see a picture of what Paul is talking about in the Titus verses: Women mentoring and setting the example for the younger generation. This vision is not taught, it’s caught. It’s caught when we see older women loving God, loving their husbands and families, and serving those around us. That’s exactly what the women of Briarwood have done for our Georgia Lady Dawgs!</div>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/vision-is-caught-not-taught</guid></item><item><title>Part 2: A Strong Insecurity Root: Pride"</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/part-2-a-strong-insecurity-root-pride</link><pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 14:52:49 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>I’m in the process of reading a book by Beth Moore, author  and Bible teacher. The book is called “So Long Insecurity.” In Chapter 6, Moore  begins a discussion on two major roots of insecurity: The culture outside us  and the influence of pride within us. These are only two out of many other  roots of insecurity that Moore presents early in the book. I’m going to direct  my reflections on the latter, pride. Here are some examples of pride that Moore  gives:</p>
<ul>
    <li>We’re not the only women in our men’s lives, and that hurts  our pride.</li>
    <li>We’re not someone’s favorite, and that hurts our pride.</li>
    <li>We’re not somebody else’s top priority, and that hurts our  pride.</li>
    <li>We don’t feel special, and that hurts our pride.</li>
    <li>We don’t get the promotion, and that hurts our pride.</li>
    <li>We don’t win the fight, and that hurts our pride.</li>
    <li>We’re not paid what we’re worth, and that hurts our pride.</li>
    <li>We’re not paid at all, and that really hurts our pride.</li>
</ul>
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<p>I’m going to give some prideful statements which may reveal  insecurity in an athlete’s life:</p>
<ul>
    <li>“I didn’t get the win today. I hate playing this sport when  I’m not the best.”</li>
    <li>“My score was the lowest out of anyone’s today. What an  embarrassment. I’m better than this!”</li>
    <li>“My coach didn’t pay attention to me today.”</li>
    <li>“The only friends I have in my life are those on the team. I  don’t have time for anybody else because they just won’t understand me.”</li>
    <li>“One of my teammates just broke my personal record. That  pisses me off!”</li>
    <li>“This team would not be able to win without me.”</li>
    <li>“I can’t help it, I’m a perfectionist.”</li>
</ul>
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<p>Moore states: “Here’s how pride can cheat us out of  intimacy, because intimacy requires transparency!</p>
<p>Here are some additional quotes that will clarify what pride  is:<br />
“We will never feel better about ourselves by becoming more  consumed with ourselves.” -B. Moore<br />
“Although perfectionists seem very insecure, doubting their  decisions and actions, fearing mistakes and rejection, and having low opinions  of themselves, at the same time, they have excessively high personal standards  and an exaggerated emphasis on precision, order and organization, which  suggests an aspiration to be better than others.” –R. Winter (psychiatrist)<br />
If we were dead honest with ourselves, we’d come to the  conclusion that pride is not a good thing after all. Sort of conflicts with  what our sport culture is telling us, huh? Well, let’s just say what pride  really is…sin.<br />
I recently got to meet a gentleman who works as a chaplain  in the summer Olympics. His name is John Ashley Null. In his book (“Real Joy:  Freedom to be Your Best”) he addresses the problem of sin in our lives. To put  it in athletic terms, Null explains that we all have a “scorecard” which  illustrates how our good works, behavior, etc. fail to meet God’s requirement  of holiness and righteousness . Null states: “How did your scorecard read  before you realized you needed God? The sins on our scorecard means you are  separated from God and sentenced to death and eternal separation from Him. The  sinful scorecard presents God with a really difficult problem. If He gives us  our just deserts, He has lost a relationship with us forever-the very purpose  for which His love created us. Yet, if God simply chooses to overlook our guilt  when we want to come back, He destroys the very basis on which we are able to  have a relationship with Him. That’s because to have a good relationship, you  need to understand yourself, understand the other person, and agree on how you  are to get along.” (pg. 66-67)<br />
God created us for a relationship with Him! That relationship  is possible through His Son, Jesus Christ. Today, take time to read Psalm,  Chapter 139. You will be amazed at the love our Heavenly Father has for you,  regardless of how you perform, what you look like, what you’ve done—good or  bad, or what gifts and talents you do or do not possess</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/part-2-a-strong-insecurity-root-pride</guid></item><item><title>Rewording Keith Urban's "Only You Can Love Me This Way"</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/rewording-keith-urbans-only-you-can-love-me-this-way</link><pubDate>Wed, 24 Mar 2010 16:43:12 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>"Well I know there's a reason/And I know there's a rhyme/[Jesus] we were meant to be together/That's why/[I can roll with the punches/'cause I know You're holding my hand/And when YOU say it's forever I understand]/Chorus: That You're always in my heart/ I'm always on Your Mind/And when it all becomes too much/You're never far behind/And there's no one who comes close to YOU/or could ever take Your place/'cause only YOU can love me this way.]<br>I could have turned a different corner/[YOU could have gone another place/But, I'd never had this assurance as I have today/Chorus: And You're always in my heart/I want YOU always on my mind/when it all becomes to much/You're never far behind/and JESUS, there's no one who comes close to YOU/nor could ever take Your place/'cause only YOU will love me this way."]</p><h4>Isaiah 26:9 "I long for You in the night; yes, my spirit within me diligently seeks You, for when Your judgements are in the land, the inhabitants of the world will learn righteousness."</h4>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/rewording-keith-urbans-only-you-can-love-me-this-way</guid></item><item><title>Somebody Finally Said It! - Part 1</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/somebody-finally-said-it---part-1</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:29:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>Beth Moore, renowned evangelical speaker, Bible teacher and author, has done it again. She’s come out with another insightful manuscript concerning a spiritual stronghold that almost all of us as women (and men) struggle with: insecurity. Although I’ve always been a fan of Beth Moore and have taken several of her 10-12 week studies, I was a little skeptical when I saw So Long Insecurity on the shelf at my favorite local bookstore this week.<br>There, in the “religious” section of Borders, sit many books from Christian authors, some familiar, some not. Various names and titles that stick out most as you walk by are Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages, Max Lucado, Francis Chan’s Crazy Love, Phillip Yancey’s The Jesus I Never Knew, Desiring God, and Joyce Meyer’s array of colorful and snappy titles like, Battlefield of the Mind.<br>And then, of course there are Beth’s books. Her beautifully-designed paperbacks and companion study guides are appealing. These eye-catching materials are colorful and feminine in design and it doesn’t take long to figure out what part of the population the publishers are targeting. The titles of her books, like Get Out of That Pit or Breaking Free, also carry with them this sense of self-empowerment. As I slide one of these titles from the shelf, I think, “If I read this I will finally feel what all these happy and mature Christians around me experience every day.”<br>Well if there’s one book which made me feel not-so-empowered to pick up, it would have to be Moore’s So Long Insecurity. (One of the young women I meet with weekly at UGA had actually told me about this book prior to my visit to the bookstore, so I’d already had a pretty good synopsis of what it entailed.) I must admit that I felt a little self-conscious about taking it to the counter to buy it, but when I got there, the store clerk smiled at me and then proceeded to give me a 25% discount without even having a coupon. I guess he felt sorry for me. (I am laughing at myself now as I type this)<br>I took the book home and began reading it that night as I sipped on a bowl of hot tomato soup. I couldn’t put it down. Here’s some of the first few golden insights Beth Moore gives on this chronic problem I’ve discovered in myself and perhaps in many around me.<br>• In the second chapter of her book, Moore gives a definition of insecurity. It’s actually cited from a published work from Joseph Nowinski’s The Tender Heart, but here it is:<br>“Insecurity refers to a profound sense of self-doubt---a deep feeling of uncertainty about our basic worth and our place in the world. Insecurity is associated with chronic self-consciousness, along with a chronic lack of confidence in ourselves and anxiety about our relationships. The insecure man or woman lives in constant fear of rejection and a deep uncertainty about whether his or her own feelings and desires are legitimate.”<br>Placing a definition to insecurity helped me tremendously because a lot of times I will let the culture around me (movies, music, the “rich &amp; famous”) define insecurity for me. It was good to see it defined by someone who’d done his research.<br>• Often, as Christian women, we think we should constantly be trying to reach a point of “perfection” in our faith; a place where we are feeling closest to our Father and free from worry, anxiety and insecurity. Beth addresses this when she says: “Is the goal of the believing life to get to a place where we simply hold steady till we die? Maybe that’s part of my problem. Maybe I just get bored easily. I’m forever wanting to go someplace with God. I forget that in order to really want to go, something has to happen to make me want to leave where I am. Maybe we’re just sick to death of taking three steps forward and two steps back.”<br>Later, Beth says, “I’m a common woman sharing common problems seeking common solutions on a journey with an uncommon Savior.”</p><p>• Insecurity can inhibit us from becoming the woman God intends for us to be. Beth Moore states that insecurity is an epidemic, but not incurable. “ I’m sick to death of insecurity. It’s been a terrible companion. A very bad friend. It promised to always think of me first and meticulously look out for my best interests. It vowed to stay focused on me and help me not get hurt or forgotten. Instead, insecurity invaded every part of my life, betrayed me, and sold me out more times than I can count. It’s time I got healthy enough emotionally to choose my lifelong companions better. This one needs to get dumped.”<br>Beth calls her first Chapter, “Mad Enough to Change.” Well, nothing could be further from how I’m feeling. I’m sick of feeling insecure. I’m tired of trying to excuse my feelings by defining them as being “overly sensitive.”<br>Ephesians 2:10 is the verse Beth paraphrases and points us to, and it’s really what God is saying to us: “I have appointed you to accomplish something good. Something that matters. Something I prepared for you before time began. Something meant to have a serious impact within your sphere of influence.”</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/somebody-finally-said-it---part-1</guid></item><item><title>100% Sure</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/100-sure</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:30:42 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>If someone asked you this question, how would you answer it?<br>"Is it possible for someone to be 100% sure about what happens to them after they physically die?"<br>I recently took a trip to Kansas City, and on the plane ride back to Atlanta airport, I asked the man sitting next to me this same question. This is how he answered, "I think when you die, that's it. You die and become dirt." I then asked him, "Does that ever make you sad? Ya know, to think that you only live for roughly 40-80+ years and then that's it!" He looked down at his bag of peanuts and then said, "Well, yeah, I guess. What do you think happens?" For the next hour, we began to talk about our lives, our families and our religious backgrounds. It turns out that this man had a history of bad experiences in the Protestant church. His mom was very "religious," with a background in a charismatic church and she had fervently tried to get her son to adopt her faith. His father, who died several years ago after serving 31 years in the U.S. Air Force, had been raised Catholic but he had never really attended Church for most of his life.<br>As we were finishing our peanuts and soda, I pulled out my Bible and began to share some Scriptures with him. I explained how I based my beliefs on what information the Bible gave concerning "on the other side," after earthly death. I gave him some information to read and he thanked me with a big smile.<br>By the end of the conversation, as our ears were filling up from the cabin pressure, he said to me, "I really need to figure out what I believe, and why I believe it. I guess the idea of where I'm going to spend eternity is the most important thing I'll ever figure out in the short time I'm here on earth. I want to be able to tell my sons what I believe too. I think I'll try Church again too."</p><p>The Bible says this, "For GOD loved the world in this way: HE gave His One and Only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life." -John 3:16</p><p>Do you know what you believe? Do you know the "why" behind what you believe? What truths or proof do you base your beliefs upon?</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/100-sure</guid></item><item><title>What's Competing for Your Heart Today?</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/whats-competing-for-your-heart-today</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:28:38 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>Mark 4:14-15 "The sower sows the word. These are the ones along the path where the word is sown: when they hear, immediately Satan comes and takes away the word sown to them." How many people have you observed in ministry settings (church, Bible study, etc.) who have walked away saying or obviously thinking, "That's the most ridiculous stuff I've ever heard."</p><p>Mark 4:16-17 "And these are the ones sown on rocky ground: when they hear the word, immediately they receive it with joy. But they have no root in themselves; they are short-lived. When affliction or persecution comes because of the word, they immediately stumble." How many people have passed through your life where their faith and excitement about God and His Gospel faded because they cared more about what people think and what they'd have to give up to follow Him whole-heartedly?</p><p>Mark 4:18-20 "Others are sown among thorns; these are the ones who hear the word, but the worries of this age, the seduction of wealth, and the desires for other things enter in and choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful." How many people have passed through your life who have let the desires for "financial security", a relationship with another person, and/or selfish ambition enabled them to miss all the blessings God had for them in their time on earth? Perhaps they've missed out on all God created them to be?</p><br><p>Mark 4:20 "But the ones sown on good ground are those who hear the word, welcome it, and produce a crop: 30, 60, and 100 times what was sown."<br>Matthew 6:19-20 "Don't collect for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where theives break in and steal. But collect for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where theives don't break in and steal."<br>Romans 10:15 (Isaiah 52:7) "How beautiful are the feet of those who announce the gospel of good things!"</p><p>Daniel 11:32b (NASB) "The people who know their God will display strength and take action."</p><p>Mark 12:30 (HCSB) "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength."</p><p>"What the heart loves, the will chooses, and the mind justifies." -Thomas Cranmers, Archbishop of Canterbury</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/whats-competing-for-your-heart-today</guid></item><item><title>What Love will make us do: Love Compels Us to Action</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/what-love-will-make-us-do-love-compels-us-to-action</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:25:23 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>In 1999, actor Ethan Hawke starred in a movie called “Snow Falling on Cedars.” The movie developed from an award-winning best-selling novel. Hawke plays Ishmael Chambers, a local reporter in San Piedro, who is doing a story on a recent murder case that has rocked this quiet community in California. The year is 1945 and the suspect is the husband of Hatsu, Ishmael’s former girlfriend/lover.<br>As Ishmael sits in the balcony of the courtroom day after day with his eyes fixed on Hatsu, he begins to drift back to his childhood memories of courting her. He remembers the details of when they first met, their time together on the beach looking for shells and sitting together in the hollow trunk of a large tree in a nearby forest. Ishmael often reminisces about their moments in the tree as teenagers when their physical desires ran wild and the relationship was consummated.<br>In 1942, a year after the bombing in Pearl Harbor, Americans were distrustful of their Japanese neighbors. The U.S. government, then under President Franklin Roosevelt, authorized the Executive Order 9066, which sent over 120,000 Japanese Americans on the West coast of California to “War Relocation Camps” These exclusion zones or military areas were guarded by U.S. Military.<br>As a result of racial tension and hostility between Americans and the Japanese communities, the relationship between Ishmael and Hatsu is forced to end abruptly as her and her family evacuate San Piedro.<br>Eventually, Hatsu’s father arranges her marriage to a Japanese man and they begin a family together. Ishmael is off serving in the War (WWII) when he finds out about Hatsu’s sudden marriage. This sends Ishmael into a period of isolation and grief.<br>The film is rich with imagery and emotional chords are struck in your heart as you discover this man’s deep love and affection for this woman. He’s obviously not “over “ her and greatly desires to be with her.<br>Long story short, what seems at first as a murder case becomes a story of accidental death. As Ishmael begins to investigate the details of the case, he discovers the man’s innocence.<br>He is torn emotionally, knowing that if he presents the evidence to the judge it would dismiss the case and free Hatsu’s husband. He wrestles with withholding the information.<br>In the end, love compels him to do what he does. His deep love and passion for this woman leads him to share his information, thus revealing the man’s innocence and the case is dismissed.<br>Ishmael does something very extraordinary here. He sacrifices his happiness for the sake of another’s. He loves Hatsu so much that he gives her up. In the closing scene of the movie, after Hatsu discovers Ishmael’s deed, she hugs him affectionately and she says softy, “You always have had a tender heart.”</p><p>What does love do? I think it drives us. It compels us to do great things. It makes us look up. It makes us hope, and it propels us to do extraordinary things!</p><p>The Apostle Paul talks about a love that compelled him to endure a lot of rough stuff in his life. He describes the source of his passion when he says, “Because of [Christ] I have suffered the loss of all things and consider them filth, so that I may gain Christ…” (Phil. 3:8)</p><p>Think about someone you love right now. Maybe it’s a person you know you can’t live without. Your love for this person is so deep that perhaps it has motivated your drive to succeed in your sport all your life.<br>What or Who is the driving force behind why you do what you do?</p><p>Some of the greatest athletic performances in history have come out of a passion and love for something or someone. If you love Jesus Christ, compete out of a love for your Savior! Give your performance to Him Who loves you unconditionally!</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/what-love-will-make-us-do-love-compels-us-to-action</guid></item><item><title>What does it mean to be "born again?"</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/what-does-it-mean-to-be-born-again</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:19:45 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>As a child and teenager, me and my family attended Southern Baptist churches. The Sunday morning services we attended always had a general format or agenda that looked something like this:<br><ol><li>A welcoming of regular attendees and guests</li><li>20 minutes of singing/worship (with choir and singing from hymnals...the books placed in the pews)</li><li>A "special music" time. Basically, one of the better vocalists from the choir would do a solo and the song he/she sang had something to do with the topic of the sermon to be taught that morning.</li><li>Then, the pastor (minister) would come up and "preach" from a large pulpit that looked sort of like a large lecturn that you see in some classrooms at universities (except this one would have a big cross on it).</li><li>Finally, immediately following the message from the pastor, there would be an "invitation." This is where the pastor encourages those who would like to pray to receive Christ as their Lord and Savior to come to the front of the room where he is standing, which was usually off the stage and in front of the pulpit. This is a time that Baptists sometimes also call "doing business with God."</li></ol></p><p>Well, I was taught throughout my life that being a "Christian" was more than just attending church. Hence the old saying, "Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than sitting in a garage makes you a car." I was taught by Sunday school teachers (the class you attend before "big church" with the pastor) that if you pray to receive Christ you will become a "born again Christian." This "born again" process or decision then follows with baptism, which is symbolic of a burial (death to sin--going under water) and a "raising to new life" (spiritual life--cleansed, up out of the water).</p><p>So, a natural question is, where does this term "born again" come from? Is it just a term the Baptists made up or does it come from some Protestant manual or theologian? Well, the answer is that it comes from God's Word, the Bible. The "born again" phrase was actually quoted by Jesus Christ in the Gospel of John, the third chapter, verses 5-8. It says, "Jesus answered, "I tell you the truth, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless he is born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. You should not be surprised at my saying, 'You must be born again.' The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit."</p><p>This "born again" process happens when we place our faith in Christ's sacrifice for our sins on the cross. It's a supernatural act of God, on our behalf, to save us from our sin. It is God who places His righteousness (His Spirit) on us at the moment we confess that we're sinful, that we need Him, and we tell Him we want to receive Him into our heart. The apostle Paul explains this rebirth in Romans 8:9-11: "You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ. But if Christ is in you, your body is dead because of sin, yet your spirit is alive because of righteousness. And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit, who lives in you."</p><p>Mark Cahill, a full time evangelist, quoted this statistic once, "10 out of 10 people die. Have you ever thought about where you're going to spend eternity?"<br>I had the opportunity this past week to pray with someone who wanted to receive Christ as her Savior. All she did was come to God (in prayer), ask for forgiveness for her sins, placed her faith in what Christ did on the cross, and she then asked God to take control of her life. Is she "born again?" In terms of what Scripture says, yes! Jesus stated, "I Am the Way, the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me. If you really knew me, you would know my Father as well...Anyone who has seen Me has seen the Father." (John 14:6-9</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/what-does-it-mean-to-be-born-again</guid></item><item><title>"Can Ya Hear Me Now?"</title><link>http://www.fcachaplains.org/can-ya-hear-me-now</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 15:15:16 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jill Perry</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p>In the Bible, we can read stories about God appearing before certain men through burning bushes (Exodus 3 ), angels (Gen. 32), clouds &amp; fire (Exodus 13), handwriting on a wall (Daniel 5) and visions (Revelation 1). In those stories where God showed up, there followed some instructions and commands.<br>Imagine for a moment that God appeared to you! For instance, you’re sitting at your desk and all of a sudden, without even touching the keyboard on your laptop, a message begins to type on your screen. (Yeah, sounds crazy and unrealistic, but remember, I said, “imagine!”) The message tells you something that is going to happen to you in the next few days. You realize that God, not some random computer nerd somewhere, has hacked into your email account! In this message, God tells you to do something. It’s a hard task and it’s got a time limit on it. Let’s say that God asks you to go and talk to a friend about something and you know, without a doubt, you’re supposed to do this because it’s a message your friend needs to hear. As He finishes typing, God then precedes to reveal that the friend is not going to listen to you. In fact, he/she is going to get angry. Think about it for a moment; God tells you to do something, and then says, “By the way, (your name), you’re going to get a hostile response. It’s not going to work, but I want you to go anyway.”<br>This actually happened to a man by the name of Isaiah, a prophet in the Bible. Look at this verse from Isaiah 6:8-10 (NASB), “Then I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, “Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?” Then I said, “Here am I. Send me!” He said, “Go, and tell this people: ‘Keep on listening, but do not perceive; keep on looking, but do not understand.’ “Render the hearts of this people insensitive, their ears dull, and their eyes dim, otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts, and return and be healed.” “<br>Sometimes God asks us to do something even when He knows it’s not going to give us what we would consider to be a favorable result. Like, for instance, when you try to share with someone a biblical truth about sin, let’s say for example, why God judges—unfavorably &amp; wrathfully---against abortion. Most of the time, you will get a look of disgust, a roll of the eyes, or the person may just get up and walk away. This leaves us with two ways we, as Christ-followers, can choose to respond. One response might be to sarcastically say to yourself, “Oh wow, that was a pleasant and effective experience. I hope God doesn’t ask me to get in that situation again. I sure looked like a narrow-minded fool!” Or, another response could be to pray, “You know, Lord, that was not easy, and I really care about this person. Can you help me to love him/her right where they are and just continue to share truth in love—the way your Son Christ did?”<br>The people Isaiah was talking to reacted with an unfavorable response. Their sin was disobedience towards their God. Scripture indicates that it was for that reason that they didn’t listen to the prophet God sent to them.<br>When the Holy Spirit reveals truth to you through God’s Word, there is only one response we should have: Study it &amp; understand the context clearly; live it out passionately; and SHARE it! I want to challenge anyone who reads this today to memorize these verses: “For the time will come when they will not tolerate sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, will accumulate teachers for themselves because they have an itch to hear something new. They will turn away from hearing the truth and will turn aside to myths. But as for you, keep a clear head about everything, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, fulfill your ministry.” (2 Timothy 4:3-5, HCSB)<br>My prayer is that our student-athletes would love God’s Word--the Bible-- and passionately share it with their teammates and all whom they influence! In Jesus’ Name, Amen.</p>]]></description><guid>http://www.fcachaplains.org/can-ya-hear-me-now</guid></item></channel></rss>